Polyreaktor on July 22nd

Polyreaktor logo: Stylized drawing of an Erlenmeyer flask with a heart label. Above it a test tube with an infinity symbol, the contents of the tube are being poured into the flask. Above both a cloud of infinity heart symbols is forming.

Hello friends,

It’s back! We are inviting you to the new Polyreaktor, our flirting and dating night for people who are polyamorous.

What is the Polyreaktor?

Within the Polyreaktor we are creating new polycules and expanding already existing ones. It’s our alternative to dating apps, the careful attempts at explaining what polyamory is, and why you are in a relationship and still are interested in the person you’re looking at.

We’re meeting for a bar night in a pleasant atmosphere, we chat in not so large groups but rather one-on-one, and everyone who’s there alreade knows polyamory.

We will have a safe space for us, our usual Kitchen Table Values apply here as well, of course - so let us treat each other well, and always respect each other’s consent! One thing that’s special about this evening: Unlike our usual events, flirting is not just allowed, but encouraged. That’s what Polyreaktor is for: To get to know each other, and create new connections.

Of course we will be there if there are misunderstandings or problems. We look out for each other, so we all can have a wonderful evening.

Signing up and entry

We need to know how many of us will come, so please sign up via email: anmeldung@polyreaktor.de

If we don’t know you yet, please briefly introduce yourselves.

Entry is free.

Sounds great! When do we start?

We will get together on Tuesday, July 22nd, 2025, doors open at 19:00. Please be there no later than 20:00 so you can get all the information on-site.

And where?

We have an amazing venue this time: We’ll meet at LeZ, Müllerstraße 26, the Lesbian-Queer Center Munich.

What’s so great about that?

  • We’ll have that space to ourselves that night.
  • There will be two rooms to retreat from the noise, if you need a break.
  • Everything is wheelchair accessible, there’s a wheelchair lift at the entrance. One exception: One of the two quiet rooms is in the basement, which is only reachable by stairs, unfortunately.
  • We have a large area with bar to get comfortable in.
  • We can adjust the lights to be comfortable.
  • There’s a bar with affordable drinks.
  • The LeZ is (obviously!) very inclusive, queer friendly, and BIPoC friendly.

Who is invited?

  • All people who…
    • are over 18.
    • are polyam or interested in that.
    • are kink-friendly. You don’t have to be kinky yourself, but you will meet people here who are. That must be okay.
    • respect consent.
    • want to get to know other people like that.
  • Queer people as well as Black, indigenous and other people of color are explicitly welcome, as are people with dis_abilities.
  • And don’t worry if you don’t identify as queer: LeZ, just like Kitchen Table, welcomes all people who share our values.

The Rules

  • All our usual values and rules apply here as well, of course.
  • The Polyreaktor addition: Flirting - only with consent! - is permitted and encouraged.
  • The LeZ rules also apply. They are quite similar to ours.
    LeZ also reserves the right to refuse entry to people who belong to right-wing extremist organizations or scens, or who have previously come to attention through racist, nationalist, antisemitic, queerphobic, or other hateful speech or actions.
    We fully support this refusal.
  • It’s not a play party. No sexual or kink activities.
  • Dress up if you like! But keep it street legal - no fetish or erotic outfits.
  • If anything happens that feels unsafe or uncomfortable and you feel you need help or support, contact the Kitchen Table organizers immediately. We will be recognizable, and we are willing and ready to help.

Sign up at anmeldung@polyreaktor.de - we’re looking forward to seeing you!