Monthly Polyam + Kink Meetups

Once a month we have our Kitchen Table Polyam + Kink Meetup.

  • On the 4th Friday each month
  • Starting at 19:15
    If you’re new and want to have a peek first, you can also come a bit early (19:00) and have a chat with one of the organizers.
  • We’ll tell you the venue when you sign up at There is information below about what the venue is like.
  • 2G+: Please be vaccinated against Covid or recovered from it. And do a quick test (self test is okay) on the day you’re coming. If you don’t have a test at home, you can get one from us and do it when you get there.

What do we do?

We’ll have a pleasant evening together, chat about polyamory and BDSM, tell our experiences and stories, and where needed we’ll support each other.

You’ve had a great moment in your polycule? Tell us about it!
There are difficulties? Polyamory can have conflicts too - let’s talk about it, maybe someone has an idea for your problem. And sometimes it can already help to just talk about it in a safe environment.
You’re new to this whole thing and want to know how it all works? Come join us, we love to help.

The same goes for kink of course - let’s talk about experiences good and bad, our questions, and the things on our minds.

If you want, bring food and snacks!

Who are you?

We want to meet people who are a little kinky and/or a little polyam. It doesn’t have to be both, it doesn’t have to be with a lot of experience, what counts is being at least curious.

Queer people as well as Black, indigenous and other people of color are explicitly welcome, as are people with dis_abilities. You can read what we’re doing to make our meetups as safe as we can at Our Values and Our Rules.

Please feel free to contact us if you have questions, or if you have a particular need that should be discussed beforehand, we will try and help.

It also doesn’t matter whether you have a lot of experience, or none at all - all that’s important is that you’re interested in at least one of these topics, and that you share our values.

The Polyam + Kink Meetup is 18+. No children, no adolescents, adults only.

You know people who would be a good fit for this? Bring them along!

The Venue

  • Our venue is wheelchair accessible.
  • Toilets are available.
  • Noise level is up to us, there is no background music controlled by someone else.
  • We have a quieter room available when needed.
  • “Normal” room lighting, no disco lights.
  • No entry fee.
  • No requirement to buy anything.
  • We have some softdrinks and some snacks available free of charge.
  • You are welcome to bring food - let’s keep our picknick tradition going indoors too!
  • If needed, we have access to a kitchen too! Please let us know beforehand if you want to use it.
  • When the weather permits we can use the terrace there too, we will just have to watch our noise levels a bit then.
  • Easily reachable by U-Bahn, S-Bahn, or Tram.

We’re looking forward to seeing you there!
The Kitchen Table Team